Ignoring R-value of less than 4.5. (I use it in winter too)
You get this table: (sorted by weight in g of LW, and R value)

At this point Xtherm is the lightest by 140g (cf Downmat UL 7)
You will remember that I also mentioned toughness. Here I decided top use denier as ballistic/tear stength isn't supplied by either company. This is for the bottom layer which I'm more likely to likely to puncture on a rock etc. (if need be I can flip it in the snow.)
The Exped UL mats are 20 denier. The normal Exped maps are 75 denier. Neoair are 70 denier on bottom.
The UL mats were decided to be less tough.
When I exclude the UL mats I get:

Compared to the Downmat 7, the Xtherm is 540g lighter. (520g lighter than the Sunmat 7 @ R4.9)
Here is the full comparison: http://puu.sh/4tAW7.png This has direct weight/insulation ratios.
Any errors feel free to correct me.