Kingsleythelost wrote:Its a debit card trust me the money was gone
The money was not available to you, yes. Tarptent didn't have it either. If it was urgent, I'm sure a call to your bank would have refunded the cash.
I have been in an extensive delay situation with another cottage manufacturer. I was told politely that at any time I could ask for my money back (it was prepaid via paypal). At the end of the day, the product was beautifully made and well worth the wait.
Tarptent is different to a lot of cottage manufacturers, many take the money up front and deliver when the goods are ready - they need the funds for working capital.
You do yourself no service by attacking someone from whose cottage business you would like a delivery of a well made and designed quality product. These are not generic contact staff in a call centre, these are real people, living, working and breathing the whole business. (I'm not suggesting it's ok to get stuck into call centre staff either, just that you will most probably get away with that initially, but karma will still get you in the end)
You have to know when to walk away. Clearly, you have upset Tarptent and they have sacked you as a customer.