SPOT 2 protocols with family & friends

The SPOT 2 enables you send a predetermined message by SMS and/or email to nominated recipients while in remote places. This is a great way to keep friends and family informed that you're going ok and I have been using this feature of late. However, the feature has a bit of a double edge. A SPOT also has a PLB feature for alerting S&R.
Last week I did a week long hike in NZ and was using the SPOT to give my wife an "I'm OK" message every morning and night. On day 5, while bashing my way through some thick scrub (how I got there is a whole other topic!) I lost the SPOT. When I discovered this I realised I now had to change plans and get to a phone asap, the reason being that our agreed protocol was that if my wife didn't hear from me for 24 hours, she would alert S&R. I wasn't able to get to speak to my wife until the morning of day 7. In the interim I had busted my guts trying to get out faster and she (and other family and friends) had had very stressful time. She had alerted S&R, who had been about to commence the search in earnest when I got out.
This experience has given me reason to reconsider the SPOT protocols we use. I want my family to feel that I am safe, but I want to avoid a hectic, stressful time like this. I can be more careful to ensure the SPOT is not lost or damaged (it was attached to my shoulder strap at the time it went missing). Event so, there would still be some risk of being unable to activate it for non-life threatening reasons eg. batteries go flat, pack (with SPOT) is lost.
I am also reconsidering the frequency of the messages and the agreed time to elapse before contacting S&R. it's a tricky one, as if I did get into a life-threatening situation I would expect that I would be able to activate the emergency beacon feature; but there is a possible scenario where I am in need of rescue, but am unable to activate the beacon eg. due to unconsciousness.
Keen to hear from other SPOT users about your protocols.
Andrew
Last week I did a week long hike in NZ and was using the SPOT to give my wife an "I'm OK" message every morning and night. On day 5, while bashing my way through some thick scrub (how I got there is a whole other topic!) I lost the SPOT. When I discovered this I realised I now had to change plans and get to a phone asap, the reason being that our agreed protocol was that if my wife didn't hear from me for 24 hours, she would alert S&R. I wasn't able to get to speak to my wife until the morning of day 7. In the interim I had busted my guts trying to get out faster and she (and other family and friends) had had very stressful time. She had alerted S&R, who had been about to commence the search in earnest when I got out.
This experience has given me reason to reconsider the SPOT protocols we use. I want my family to feel that I am safe, but I want to avoid a hectic, stressful time like this. I can be more careful to ensure the SPOT is not lost or damaged (it was attached to my shoulder strap at the time it went missing). Event so, there would still be some risk of being unable to activate it for non-life threatening reasons eg. batteries go flat, pack (with SPOT) is lost.
I am also reconsidering the frequency of the messages and the agreed time to elapse before contacting S&R. it's a tricky one, as if I did get into a life-threatening situation I would expect that I would be able to activate the emergency beacon feature; but there is a possible scenario where I am in need of rescue, but am unable to activate the beacon eg. due to unconsciousness.
Keen to hear from other SPOT users about your protocols.
Andrew