2nd attempt.
I filled up as Brian suggested, I was a bit nervous, waiting for another explosion, but not this time. PHEW.
However a lot of pressure built up in the stove and my coin was not stopping the fuel coming out the fill hole, eventually it overflowed and started a great ball of fire.

I bolted.
The ball of fire tamed down after a while and it started to work ok. Eventually, I had flames coming out of the 3 1/16th holes I drilled. But after a few minutes the flame went out. There was still a lot of metho in the stove.
3rd attempt:
I grabbed a rivet to cover the fill hole this time. filled up the container till it covered over the fill hole. Placed the rivet in the fill hole and lit the stove. I than placed the oven over the stove and it taken 10 minutes for the stove to obtain 400F. Once it reached 400F it continued to rise, got to 450F so I opened the top vent and it still continued to rise, Got to almost 500F, when I decided to open the front door a tad to get the temp down to 400F. after a couple minutes the temp got to 400F. I closed the door and it maintained this temp for a few more minutes. At the 10 minute point of sustaining the 400F temp on the oven, the temp of the oven started to go down. For the rest of the burn time, the oven could only manage 250F.
Here's the details in more detail of my test, with some images.
Filled Homemade Soda can stove with almost 3 ounces of Metho.
Soda Stove taken 10 minutes to reach 400F on the Bemco Oven.
Maintained minimum 400F for 10 minutes.
After the 10 minute mark, the stove was only able to sustain 250-300F
Stove ran for further 10 minutes before flame went out.
Once I Lit the stove, it remained lit for 30 minutes.
When the stoves flame went out, there was still one ounce of fuel left in stove that did not burn.
I don't know what I've done wrong, but it's not working out for me.
I must be doing something wrong. Watching the youtube Video on using the Soda Can stove, Mine is not performing like that.