by Gadgetgeek » Mon 03 Mar, 2014 11:45 am
I've pulled the plug on a couple of trips, one was a cave trip that I should have seen going bad much sooner, but trusted the guy leading.... I learned something important that trip. You might not be the only one thinking its going bad, but as long as you go with it, you might just be leading the rest of the pack. When I called it off, my cave buddy was very happy, as she was just following along, hoping someone would say it was okay to back out. I called it as I felt hypothermia starting to set in, and I wanted to be in a safe place to shiver, where we were turned out to be far more dangerous than we had been told, and a fall would probably have been very life threatening. As it turned out, my buddy was in much worse shape than I was by that point. I also learned to never trek with people with a pathologically high tolerance for risk. I would rather leave a group and go solo, than continue on with people that I felt were unsafe to be with, or who were going to take risks beyond what I felt were appropriate.
The other trip was a simple over-nighter, unfortunately it wasn't "planned" as such. The fearless leader from the previous adventure decided that we as a staff (30 or so random folks running a children's "camp") should walk to the "wilderness village" to stay the night. But thought it better to not tell anyone. 15 degree low, not enough sleeping bags, a couple cots, no snacks after the walk (and several people had missed dinner) So I broke the rules an went back to the main site for things like contact solution, toiletries, snacks. There were lots of unhappy folks in the morning. Nothing life threatening, and one of those stories that is not met with laughter several years later. It didn't help that the organizer was the only one to get a good nights sleep. I learned to be very careful on two counts, Be very honest about what you expect an event to be like, and two, don't assume you've planned for the correct adventure.
But the main thing is to make sure that you don't have a feedback loop going of "he thinks its okay so it must be" and the other guy thinking "he's still going, so we must be alright still"
As for the point of no return, its still important to make the mental switch from recreation mode to survival mode. Even if things have gone bad on the last quarter of the trip, and finishing is the best way out, its still important to not run yourself ragged out the edge in case something worse happens. There are lots of cases where people get into more trouble because they try to hurry that last little bit to get out faster. Or alternatively, thinking its almost over, so not taking steps to ensure safety, like getting wet, or braving bad weather thinking the car is just a few km away, and then spending another night out, but now being more in danger.